Seperation help

[Aftern]

ex partner wont accept its over
its been about a month now
it was a Ltr with dc involved but i have gave enough chances for change and its definitely the then for me now but ge can’t accept it

And I feel incredibly guilty since hes no friends or family besides parents

@Aftern Are you still living together?

No @Notaboutthebass

Can you be tough with him, does he know you're serious?

He thinks im not serious because ive taken him back in the past
i cant be tough i feel bad as he has no one

He's an adult and you are not responsible for his life. You cannot be with him just because "he has no one". We only get one life and it's not a rehearsal.

Someone posted the other day ‘Don’t set yourself on fire, to keep someone else warm”

You may have to harden your heart, but the only way he’ll accept it is a straight forward no, no and no again.

He will pick up that you feel sorry for him and think he can wheedle his way back. So don’t feel sorry for him. Everything he is doing is for his benefit, not yours.

OP, does he have no one because he’s not very nice? Because he doesn’t reach out to people? Are the reasons you broke up reasons he is also not friends with anyone else?