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Advice needed

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Ukpoppyman · 15/11/2022 10:56

So 6 months ago I became a Dad which is amazing but since then my wife has told me she no longer loves me.

Her reason being that I didn't step up as a dad and she fell out of love with me even though she says I have stepped up since.

I am lost to know what to do she is talking of moving out/us selling the house when she returns to work and one part of me wants to push forward with that if the love isn't there but then another part of me couldn't imagine not seeing our daughter on a daily basis so wants to stay put.

Any ideas?

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Notaboutthebass · 15/11/2022 13:51

Sounds like the end. You've both given it time but she's done. If she's talking about selling the house you need to go with that, sorry.

Pinkwithwhite · 15/11/2022 14:40

She's giving up way to quickly! Try counselling, date nights, making her feel special. PUT IN THE EFFORT!
All you can do is try.

GordonShakespearedoesChristmas · 15/11/2022 14:43

This happened in my family too. Turned out it was a symptom of PND. I would suggest Time and therapy.

Ukpoppyman · 17/11/2022 19:47

How did you get past it?

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