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Relationship Red Flags

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HermyGranger · 14/11/2022 22:28

Asking for a friend… These are red flags in a relationship right? Or things that can be worked on?

  • Relationship going very well when all is well but partner never supportive (shuts down/even becoming rude) when things are less good at my end - eg. If I’m quite anxious about something (eg. work) and can’t shake it off, getting told I’m crazy and getting no affection
  • One way support in that I seem to be expected to support partner when they are down
  • Inability from partner to make decisions in any aspect of life
  • Partner blaming me for putting stress on them if I ever ask for example if they want to do something/go away for a weekend/for a holiday
There isn’t much hope is there?…
OP posts:
B1rd · 14/11/2022 22:39

He's selfish and useless.
You'll never change him. He should be your main supporter in life. LTB

Closetbeanmuncher · 14/11/2022 23:14

Total waste of time and energy IMO.

Nolosomi · 14/11/2022 23:19

Selfish & no empathy. Get well rid.

Purplecatshopaholic · 14/11/2022 23:19

Ugh, he sounds awful. He won’t change - show him the door op, life’s too short

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