Hey all new to here.
I'm hoping someone can help me, without going into all of the details because it would take you for ever to read but me and my partner broke up 15 months ago this month after being together 19 years and two children was meant to be a break apart due to him going though a mental break down and he was in a bad place he shut everyone out I had no idea what was going on because I couldn’t get him to talk to me anyway a guy started messaging me during our break and the messages turned into sextexting completely out of character for me I’ve only ever been with one person sexually which is my ex, anyway my ex found out about this guy and seen the messages and it ended up us breaking up completely it turned nasty for while, and then I ended up having a having a mental breakdown myself, anyway there’s still chemistry between us and it’s not just because of the kids or anything there is still general love between us, but what I want to know am I being unreasonable to know if he has moved on with someone else? I ask this because although I say there’s chemistry between us I’m a very big over thinker and my brain just over takes me and over takes everything.