My relationship ended a couple of months ago. He was alot younger. Posted here in regards to our differences. He reached out and I have too since, only a message here and there. I struggled with the ending even though I knew it was for the best. His last message to me was 'I am not the man you fell in love with, I'm not the right fit for you but I'm there for you if you need me'. I decided to go no contact as it wasn't helping and told him I needed to stop messaging as it hurts. A couple of weeks later he messaged to say, 'I'm here for you, I don't like that you have nobody to talk to' (no close family). I told him i was struggling but thanked him and he repeated that he cares for me but he isn't the right fit for me and wouldn't be able to forgive himself if he couldn't give me what I needed. He's right and I have accepted that although it's difficult, it's for the best and I said I agreed and told him to take care. It was hard hearing from him but I thought at least its on good terms. I now need to completely accept it and move on. I deleted his number. I have cried but I know the loss isn't him.
Last night he messaged again and said......
'I know we haven't spoken in days but I have woken up after have a sexual dream about you and I have nowhere to turn. As its about you and you are on my mind, I thought I should say'
I messaged and said I wasn't sure what I was supposed to do with that message. He said 'nothing, it was on my mind at the time and needed to get it out of my head'.
Is that cruel? Why would he do that?