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Fiance's Friend

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NeedHelp9 · 06/11/2022 20:17

My fiance's friend has been acting odd for the past few months. On a night out he was taking photos of me and sending them to his males friends and denied it. But then went on to tell my fiance his friends were wanking over my photos. He makes comments about how my fiance couldn't trust me. When my fiance told him we were getting married he was very negative and more or less tried to say he shouldn't be getting married. This friend is getting divorced so maybe that is why. I don't know this friend very well, I've only met him a few times and thought we got on OK. Is it just me or do you think this is very disrespectful and generally not the way he should be talking about me and our relationship?

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Riverlee · 06/11/2022 20:18

He sounds vile. Have you mentioned this to your fiancé? What does he say? I think you and your fiancé should ditch him.

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NeedHelp9 · 06/11/2022 20:21

He is really annoyed about it and is planning to pull him on it. I wasn't sure if I was overreacting so wanted to get someone else's opinion. He is the sort of man that talks a lot and I'm afraid of what he is saying to other people

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Quiegal · 07/11/2022 03:56

NeedHelp9 · 06/11/2022 20:17

My fiance's friend has been acting odd for the past few months. On a night out he was taking photos of me and sending them to his males friends and denied it. But then went on to tell my fiance his friends were wanking over my photos. He makes comments about how my fiance couldn't trust me. When my fiance told him we were getting married he was very negative and more or less tried to say he shouldn't be getting married. This friend is getting divorced so maybe that is why. I don't know this friend very well, I've only met him a few times and thought we got on OK. Is it just me or do you think this is very disrespectful and generally not the way he should be talking about me and our relationship?

Very disrespectful what he done to you but your fiance should be angry and cutting him off.

If anything you will never get married as he would of now planted a see in your fiance head so be prepared for no wedding at all.

His marriage ended he wants his friend your fiance to be the same.

I think he jealous he got someone like you. Threaten to go police about the photos it's disgusting why the hell your fiance hasn't hit the roof I don't know. You always with a man who allowing his friend to be disrespectful personal I would end it. Tell him you can't stick up for me and allowing this can't see how we can carry on.

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NeedHelp9 · 07/11/2022 13:30

I maybe didn't show it in my post but my fiancé is really angry with him and is cutting him off and is going to confront him. I wanted to get someone else's opinion as sometimes it's hard to see it from another perspective

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Maze76 · 07/11/2022 20:10

He obviously wants to split you and your fiancé up.

His motivation for doing so.. Either he fancies you or he wants his best mate to be single like he is.

I really hope your fiancé will see through his mates game and set him straight.

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NeedHelp9 · 07/11/2022 21:49

That's what I had thought but I can't understand why. Maybe he's just bitter or doesn't want my OH getting married for some reason. I don't think it's that he fancies me. He has seen through it and is going to speak to him about it

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cosmicbabe · 07/11/2022 22:32

What sort of photos has he managed to take of you without your permission that he could wank over?...

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NeedHelp9 · 07/11/2022 23:14

They were just pictures on a night out, pretty sad if it's true but I don't believe it is, I think it's just to wind my OH up

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