We haven’t got on for a while. He is quite controlling and criticises everything I do. I try to avoid interacting with him most of the time to avoid arguments. He had a go at me for not immediately washing my hands earlier today after sorting my son out in the toilet. I was waiting for my son to wash his hands. I said to my husband please don’t tell me what to do I’m just waiting for the sink to be free and then will wash my hands. He then continued to have a go at me. So once I washed my hands I flicked the excess water from my hand at him. It was from a distance and barely touched him. He jumped from the stairs and hit me hard on the back. I understand that it was probably annoying to get water on him but I’ve got to a point where I can’t continue to listen to him having a go at me about everything. He has tried to hit me before a few years ago, he missed and I hit my head on a wall trying to dodge his fist, anyway we went to therapy for a few weeks until he quit. I’m not sure what to do next.