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Been with husband for 10 years, and have a 4 year old. Since our child was born we have very rarely had sex. Every few months pretty much. Whenever I ask him it's "I'm too tired" "only want to do it when our child is away" etc.

Today I had to use this computer and his email was open. I saw a login confirmation for a sex cam site called stripchat and a notification that a subscription had expired on onlyfans to a woman passed suggestively in underwear.

I asked him to explain himself and he said he saw it as "just porn". He said he never paid or interacted with anyone, just watched.

I feel so betrayed, he doesn't come near me, but looks up other women while I'm asleep. I asked if he would be OK with me going online, choosing a man I liked and then watching him give a live performance online. He said absolutely not and he'll never do it again.

I don't know how I can believe that, and how I can come back from this.

Is this a big deal or am I over reacting?

He said absolutely not and he'll never do it again.

We will. He'll just hide it better. There's about 40 gillion sites with porn. He wants cams because it's an actual interaction.

I can cope with porn even though I'm against it, but not with actual human interaction. Would be over for me OP.

Cam sites are a instant sackable offence for me.

Let's face it in a casual or accidental browse what you'll see will be the tip of the iceberg.

Worth considering that when making your decision and communicating with him.

Yep sorry he won't stop. And it is cheating. And gross.

Only fans and cam sites are an instant red line, its cheating to me as its interactive.