Partner left randomly

[Lisagreen12]

So 48 hours ago my DH Up and left. We weren’t properly arguing just a slight disagreement and he packed a bag and left. I’m so confused by it all I don’t even know if we are still together. Do I message him? Call him? Wait for him to respond. As he was leaving he said he was going for a night and this is now the third night and I’ve heard nothing, I’m not even sure how many clothes he has with him or where he is. What do I say to him? I’m heartbroken.

Read the list you wrote of why you wouldn't never take him back!!!

I’ve found out she’s also an ex from years ago so he’s still saying she’s just a friend and that I never believe him. I’m disgusted.

Yep I knew he would
Stay strong, he's a lying gaslighting piece of shit

So when he’s been disappearing for hours, and then this time for days, he’s been cheating with his Ex. And it’s not just the disappearing. He’s been emotionally abusing you by picking fights, sabotaging your efforts, giving you the silent treatment, and expecting you to apologize when he’s at fault.

Now he’s taking you for a fool by expecting you to fall for his lies. Lisa, tell him the Ex is welcome to him. If you allow him back, you’re asking for misery.

I have to say already something gone wrong and he trying to come back that was fast.

You seem a strong person and I know you will get through this.

Just focus on you and kids.

Sorry this has happened to you.

He's a pig. Not a prize worth "winning". Let OW have him.
No way I'd have him back. Poor you and the kids.
He put himself first- that's who he really is. Don't believe his bullshit.

He’s trying to worm his way back in and pretending it didn’t happen

He must think you're stupid.

Trying to get you to question if it really happened. That behaviour of staying or for hours, then his storming out, are textbook affair behaviour.

What a cheeky bastard! Throw all of his stuff out of the front door or dump it at hers if you know where she lives!

Just calmly say "put your stuff in the car, get out of my house and don't come back"

Don't let him back. Dirty swine.