Turn it off

[thesefeelingsuck]

Do you ever wish you could just turn your feelings off??

I've had feeling for a man for a long while and it's eating away at me. I always run into him. Changed the times and route I walk! He is just everywhere!

He is unavailable and has been pursuing me over a year, I HAVE shut him down and said we cannot even be friends. He is married.

I've been dating but it doesn't change the feelings I have for this guy.

Any other advice on how to let go? Please no judgement.

It would be easier to turn off your feelings if you realised he's a cheating shit bag who would bring no benefit to your life
Does he want an affair with you? I'd be telling him to fuck off

Yes you really need to start thinking, oh shit there's that married creep who keeps hitting on me. I don't know why he thinks I would fancy him when he's just a cheat and a liar.

When you see him act as if 'Oh look, it's Ryan, Jane's husband. He really shouldn't be pursuing other women because he is married to Jane.'

You should start thinking, "Oh shit, there's that married weirdo who constantly hitting on me." I'm not sure why he thinks I'd like him since he's a liar and a cheat.

@CloeFree Our answers are remarkably similar!

Remind yourself every time you see him that if he's been trying to cheat on his wife with you, he'd try to cheat on you with someone else. He sounds like an untrustworthy dick, why would you even want him?

Do you live near each other or is he making sure he bumps into you?