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SiL leaving DH

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Hadalifeonce · 26/10/2022 19:08

My SiL is about to leave her verbally and financially abusive DH, they have 1 DC.
I have told her to get as much info re his finances, incl photos as possible. Is there anything else I should advise?

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MrsPerfect12 · 26/10/2022 19:09

Make sure she has the passports and birth certificates.

Hadalifeonce · 26/10/2022 19:12

OK, thank you.

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firstmummy2019 · 26/10/2022 19:17

Tell her to screenshot any abusive text/whatsapp messages and to email them to herself and to you. Then she must change all her passwords on email, social media, online banking etc just in case he has access to these.

Pixiedust1234 · 26/10/2022 19:17

Finances aren't just wages and savings but also investments and pensions. Proof of house ownership/mortgage statements.

Marriage, birth, any name change documents. Driving licence. Passports for her and children

Hadalifeonce · 26/10/2022 19:54

I have said any finances he has including stocks, investments etc.
I know there are not emails, texts etc. Have told her birth cert and passport for DC.

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Idiotintraining · 26/10/2022 21:00

All passports and birth certificates and anything has childrens identity on

Speak to school and explain because he may try and take child from school. I'm. Not saying they will but it might be an option

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