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Does he like me?

28 replies

Burntcoffee · 21/10/2022 20:58

I have a little crush on an older guy at work and today in the break room I was chatting with him and some other colleagues. I mentioned that I found an older celebrity quite attractive and the guy I like laughed and said 'maybe there's chance for me yet' and then left the room! While I haven't given much context, do you think he likes me or was just joking around?

OP posts:
Emptyandsad · 22/10/2022 23:48

bonzaitree · 22/10/2022 22:52

If you aren't sure he doesn't really like you.

When men want you, they don't hold back.

What a ridiculous thing to say. Men (like women) are not all the same. Some are confident, some are shy, some are players, some aren't, etc etc

You're work colleagues so he may well be a little nervous because the consequences could be serious if he oversteps the mark. Enjoy the flirtation and see where it takes you

Good luck

DatingDinosaur · 23/10/2022 00:20

Harbinger Of Doom here Grin

He might just be flirting to see if he can “pull a younger woman”.

Proceed with caution. Eyes (not legs) wide open.

MMmomDD · 23/10/2022 00:40

OP - you are 30. Still young and plenty of time to meet someone closer in age who would make a good life partner. Especially if you want kids.

18 year is a huge age difference.

At nearly 50 he is still fairly ok. But very soon he will be slowing down, and becoming/acting as an older (old) man.
Such age gap always catches up with people.
Trust me - you will not want to be with a man 18yo ears older than you as a 40-50yo woman.

Enjoy your flirtation, why not. Just please - do not stop dating and hopefully you’ll meet someone of your own generation to have kids with.

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