So this evening is one of many evenings where my partner has got annoyed due to dd’s sleeping habits. She gets out of bed a couple of times because she struggles to settle and because it’s Friday I let her stay up later and we’ve been having a cuddle, film and sweets etc.
Just now, we literally got into bed and she heard us laughing and obviously had a bit of fomo. She came in the bedroom and my partner went silent and was clearly unhappy because dd was asking to sleep in my room. He said “if she stays in here then I’m going home”.
Dd is 8 and as I say, this isn’t the first time he’s been unable to tolerate things like this. Before him it was just me and her, so even though we’ve been together 2 years this is still a big transition. I said that she won’t be, but did he have to react in that way?
I’ve also recently started a new job, and he asks at least once a week whether people (men) have been asking me anything. This is all because one of them made a crude comment in my first week there which I told him as I found it odd, and he’s been seething about it ever since. This morning he asked me again via text, and I was already late and rushing into work so didn’t get chance to reply. So obviously he took this the wrong way and he was very cold with me.
We can be so good sometimes but then other times it’s like this and I hate it.