Online dating - is this a red flag

[Newusernameaug]

OLD - Just started chatting to this guy the last few days, my intuition and gut is telling me somethings not right, but I can’t articulate why, here’s the most recent message I’ve just received.
would this be classed as love bombing or future faking - for context we've not spoken verbally, video, this is literally just a few messages in.

it’s the second time he’s asked what I’m looking for, d previously said ‘I’m looking for ‘the one’ but been single 10+ years and I’ve only join tinder this past week as wanted to meet new people and explore the new area I’m living in’ - he then asked again, am I looking to marry, or just chat to people.

Shopping list has honest, honest (again) and trustworthy in it. I reckon he's a cheaper....

*cheater

His tone is just like that of a chap I spoke to on OLD a number of years ago. He worked up to telling me that he was seriously right wing and sending me a copy of the suggested constitution for the UK that he had written, and then getting into a furious snit when I said I wasn't going to read all 198 pages of it. I kept chatting to him for ages after I had decided that he was bonkers so that I could send screen shots to my friends.

He sounds... not great, OP.

Oh, I missed a lot. Well done OP - ruthless efficiency 😁

That guy writes like an ex of mine - wasn't called Dave was he?

I was thinking the very same, is he trying to get here on a visa ?

you murdered me! 💀🤣

Oil rigs, some weird army post, wife who was killed in a car crash with that pesky but loved daughter off in another country…. Send iTunes gift cards! Ha!

Legit had a belly laugh… hope that works like sit ups!

It sounds rather contrived to me OP.
I would be wary....

@Newusernameaug

Also here to say you ARE looking good woman!!!

“Quite attractive” to American’s at least isn't negging. More of a restrained “hot damn mama!”

(you can check my post history and find I’m not a man nor a creep, but compliments are due!)

the “you look so alive” comment from that guy makes me feel creeped out. Like how do other people look? Not alive?

Youre an attractive women, words are nothing only action.

thanks for sharing your experience… how weird is OLD?!? So weird!

I’d give him another chance just incase it was a one off, but someone over sleeping when you’re an adult isn’t a great sign!

Hahaha thank you - yes it’s soooo weird!!

The original weird one has gone and I have two dates lined up for the next week so fingers crossed!

"own the key to my heart" FFS does he think he is on a reality TV show?

Ditch this one for cheesiness & general Ick OP.

Ewww, I can't put my finger in it either, but just no.... it's couldn't continue to message him. Smarmy.

I think he could have a fake profile judging by the English.

If his profile contains his full name look him up on Facebook. If not, do his photos look like they have been taken abroad? Does he text you at strange times? These would be red flags.