Online dating - is this a red flag

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OLD - Just started chatting to this guy the last few days, my intuition and gut is telling me somethings not right, but I can’t articulate why, here’s the most recent message I’ve just received.
would this be classed as love bombing or future faking - for context we've not spoken verbally, video, this is literally just a few messages in.

it’s the second time he’s asked what I’m looking for, d previously said ‘I’m looking for ‘the one’ but been single 10+ years and I’ve only join tinder this past week as wanted to meet new people and explore the new area I’m living in’ - he then asked again, am I looking to marry, or just chat to people.

Scammy!

I watch a lot of videos on YouTube about love scams. When I read through your text exchange, it sounds very similar.

If he tells you he's working on an oil rig,on contract,his wife died 5-6 years ago, he has a young teen in boarding school and wants you to send him a gift card because he can't get into his bank account, then run a mile!
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Strikes me as a bot/scammer from the language being used. As others have said bin him.

Never reel off a full list of what you're after or they'll shape themselves to fit, keep it light and one big thing that's vague like "must make me laugh everything else is pretty fluid"

Definitely a scammer

Yes bin him immediately. And don’t bother explaining why.

Next!

I’d reply, “Yeah, I don’t think I’m going to be humble and unconditional enough for you.”

He's an absolute tit. The most cringe worthy shite I've read in a long time.

Absolutely a scammer. I reckon in a few days would ask you to send him money!

I say scammer same as other pps.

Yuk! Yes, it sounds scammy. Sadly, some poor woman is going to fall for this. Make sure it’s not you!

I'd 100% run.

He sounds like a few men I saw OLD and they were all from another country and looking for a visa

Definitely a scammer -after a few months on the dating apps you can spot them a mile off

Sounds like a Catfish

That last message screams no, its just too full on.

I would move on.

That’s an incel. Bet cha.

Definitely a scammer

Scammer. You can play along just to confirm what others have suspected. Just make sure you don't give him money or any info about yourself.

Dogs love you unconditionally. Maybe what he needs is a puppy.

The way he writes makes him sound incredibly dumb. Is he?

Also, he wants "a woman" (not you specifically) to do all the things he sees in movies and thinks he should have.

He's not so much 'I like you for you' and too much 'I want the stuff I seen in the TV shows and you'll do'

When you said you want shared goals (not what the goals were) he said 'that's me lol' What grown man says lol first off

Secondly, how "that you" when you don't even know what the goals are? He's not even trying.

What does he have to offer you?

He wants a bland supermodel who think the sun shines out of his arse and doesn't give him any shit.

All the qualities he want can be found in a cockerpoo. Not sure he's ready for a higher life form than that.

Nope, nope, nope. And nope

Scammer. They always talk like that, no man I know in real life does!

Is it usual to have these kind of heart to hearts before you've even met? Honestly, I don't see the point.

All the qualities he want can be found in a cockerpoo.

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