Could you ever forgive your partner for this?

[Yoyooo]

Would you be able to forgive your DH if, when pregnant,they said they wanted to kill you and threaten to take your children away from you, taking away their passports? Then shortly after professing their love and saying sorry etc.

What justification would there be for doing this? Either from how the other partner has been acting or what stress they are under?

Sorry if I am being deliberately vague I just want some unbiased answers.

I would pack our stuff when he wasn't in and disappear..

Of course not.
There would be no answer possible to justify that behaviour, no acceptable form or amount of apology, and that relationship would be over.

No. Whoever is on the receiving end of this needs to get away from their partner ASAP.

No I couldn't. Even if it was a psychotic episode I would never feel safe with them again.

No justification…ever….regardless of context leading up to event and after imo

Absolutely unforgivable, no matter how 'sorry' they were.

No justification and you need to get as far away from him as possible as quickly as possible

Absolutely not. I would actually report this to the police and it would be over. I wouldn't take it as an idle threat either. Its worrying .

This.

No never

Won't cross my mind to see them again, let alone forgive them.

I'm just curious, when someone asks 'is this ok' when it so obviously isn't ok , what they think could possibly ever justify it?

I can’t believe you need to ask.

Unless they were having a psychotic episode or had a brain tumour, absolutely not.

No one in their right mind would say he should be forgiven. If you are even contemplating it, it's because he's gaslighting you into thinking you're unreasonable.

Men who make these sorts of threats go on to carry them out at some point. Verbalising their thoughts is just the first step. Get out asap.

nope

even if it was because of psychosis

There is no justification for this. To make threats like this amounts to mental abuse.

I hope you have packed and gone Yoyooo

No bloody way. Mine's recently threatened to take my unborn baby away out of anger and I haven't responded to him since after that. But being told he'd kill me would be a step too far and I wouldn't feel safe..

Not in a million years. Never

This. Never stay with a man who threatens.

No.

Why do you even need to ask?

No way. Leave if you can, and maybe don't tell him where you're going.