I can't even. (Trigger warning- sleazy paedo male)

[OldFan]

I just had to get this off my chest.

After I split up with my ex-FWB years ago, I wanted to discover the extent of what he had been upto with numerous women and men. I came across a friend of his on FB who had been involved, so I friended her to see if I could learn more.

Over the years this person has seemed to be an actual individual person, we've messaged quite a bit of chat etc.

My ex always had a thing about 'children have a sexuality' and would try and get out of me my childhood sexual desires and experiences. He didn't have any luck there because I didn't have any.

Anyway, yesterday this person's account messaged me a tale about her and her sister as children which seemed blatantly made up and disgusting. Ending with 'did you and your sister ever do anything like that?'

I believe my ex was either in the room and told her what to write, or he was in her account writing that. I don't think this account was him all along.

I hadn't realized he's effectively a paedo. That was an attempt at child erotica.
He also when I was with him said that he was abused as a child and enjoyed it. Some details of that sounded made up, too.

Humungous red flags. Be glad you're no longer attached and if it continues in similar veins I'd not hesitate to report to the police.

Block and report the account.

Block. Report. Call police.

I've blocked and reported- facebook doesn't seem to give you a chance to explain what you're reporting though, so unless it's a picture or something they'd probably say it's ok.

Report to the police. Has this other lady got kids?

Report asap either way he is vile.

I think she has a boy.

I don't expect the police to do anything, but have reported now.

I reported it to the police on people's advice here, which was pretty embarrassing as they just said no crime has been committed.

Still pretty gross, though.