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Am I paranoid or what?

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Workinghardeveryday · 05/10/2022 22:26

I probably am, but I have zero intelligence when it comes to tech 😬.

About 3 or 4 years ago I found out dp was staying up and watching porn when I thought he was gaming.

Our sex life was rubbish at the time, still is really. Tbf it’s opportunity more now because of the kids.

He ordered something for me at the weekend and I expected to have received it by now. I asked him if I could check his emails to track, looked in inbox and junk. When in junk there were about 6/7 from random women wanting to meet. Totally don’t think they were sent especially to him, more of a advertising or whatever thing.

I have never received any emails from men offering a good shag (unfortunately 😂), so why is he receiving them.

am I paranoid to think he is still looking at porn, or will they be from looking years ago?

Also, if he was just looking at porn, why would they have his email address? I know enough to know you can look at loads without giving you details.

Anyone with advice would be greatly received, thank you!

OP posts:
GreyCarpet · 07/10/2022 13:01

I remember Dh hired a young lad (16) and he used to come in to work so chuffed and showing Dh how ‘Anna’ had messaged him offering sex. Dh had to explain to him that it’s just Russian bots.

I always wondered if anyone actually believed it was for them personally!

bingbummy · 07/10/2022 14:45

You may be paranoid but that doesn't mean you're wrong.

booboo24 · 07/10/2022 16:48

My.spam box is full of emails telling me Russian beauties are free tonight (I'm sraight and not a porn user) so no, I don't this points to anything worrying

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