Is it ok to have a crush on another man?

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I have a bit of a crush on my dd’s swimming teacher 🤗he is gorgeous! I would never act on it as I love DP lots but he just makes DD’s swimming lessons that extra bit interesting. He took his top off today when he was showing the kids how to dive into the pool I was like thank you God 😂 I sometimes have naughty thoughts about him before bed time. Has anyone else experienced this?

Erm, yes. I had a raging crush on a colleague a couple of years ago. No idea why, he wasn't conventionally attractive. I told DH and he teased me about it. It passed. Everyone has crushes.

I think my DP probably has clocked on because I’m always saying he is so much better with the kids than the previous teacher 😂 the last teacher I wouldn’t like to see him with his top off had no personality.

Hopefully your husband has a crush on someone he's seen half naked and has naughty thoughts about her and announces it on forums.

Or you could grow up.

We can't control our feelings. We can control our actions though. Nothing wrong with a crush unless you deal with it in a way that hurts you or someone else.