Hand held

[Junepa]

I recently had a thread about my boyfriend who’s moved himself in by stealth but then I came off mumsnet for a while and can’t find it

I’ve just ended it tonight and need a hand hold. I don’t even know how to feel. Part relief part waiting for everything to come crashing down

🫱🏼🤚🏼👋🏻🫲🏼

you've done the right thing. This first part is shit! But you'll feel better once you get through this bit!!

DO NOT 'unend' it!!!

🍹🍫🍿🥃

Here's a hand hold and a gentle hug if you need it!

Is there anything anyone could help offer advice or different perspectives on? Or just offer support from us who might have been in a similar position maybe?

I’ve just found the post it’s under what’s fair in the relationship section

I feel like it’s the right thing but what’s the best thing to do over the next couple of days? Keep myself busy?

We had a big row last night as he went for “one drink” then turned up at a stupid o’clock knocking on my door

we were meant to go out for a meal tonight and he hasn’t come at the time he’s meant to

so I’ve packed his stuff up dropped it outside his door and blocked him on everything

I’ve had enough

I think I know I wasn’t being treated very well it’s just suddenly the shift in my life and when you are used to seeing someone all the time then suddenly that’s it

Well done. Don’t relent!