we are married 20 years & have 2 children, we have a happy house and all seemed good. New neighbours moved in a year ago, a couple in their 40’s same as us. In the last 6 months my husband got chatting to them, about their dog etc, as we have dog too, he also loaned them a garden tool, so just small stuff. About 2 months ago we were at a birthday party in local pub and they were there, this was my 1st time meeting them, let’s call them Luke & Mary, anyway I noticed anytime mh went to bar, Mary would get eye contact with him & smile or go out of her way to brush off him, I didn’t like it but never mentioned anything since, Recently we decided to have a few friends, neighbours over for food & drinks in garden, my husband invited them. Well the minute they arrived, mh sat with Mary all evening, not making conversations with anyone else. Anytime mh went in to get a drink, she would follow. No one seemed to notice as they all chatting with each other. I knew by their body language they liked each other. Anyway I went upstairs to sort a bed out as my friend was staying over, I could hear them talking in the hall, mh saying how he loves her bum & dreams about her, she saying ‘oh really we have to do something about this as I think your gorgeous’, well I just cried upstairs. When I came down they were out the back, I didn’t say anything , didn’t know what to do, Luke then said to Mary they are going home & she didn’t want to go, eventually they left, mh was very drunk at this stage so I told him to go to bed. Next Morning I told mh what I heard and he says he can’t remember anything, told him to leave, he’s back now in the box room, he is very very remorseful etc. He tells he has no interest in her and that he doesn’t understand why he would of said all that, just don’t know what to do, was something going on prior to this night …. As they seemed quite comfortable with each other when they were chatting all evening….