Do you need to romance in a relationship

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So im a young man who has never been in a relationship before, Im attracted to women sexually and I do want my own kids someday but I have never had a crush or viewed women in a romantic way. I never want to get married, Romantic gestures make me cringe and even going out on fancy dates isnt for me. Instead of going out to a fancy restraunt id rather order a chinese, watch some netflix and then have some sex straight after lol.

Im not gay or anything, Im very attracted to women sexually and I always eye them up thinking how they would look naked but romantically or emotionally I've never really been into them that way.

I wouldnt care if my wife/girlfriend wanted to leave me because at the end of the day A woman doesnt belong to me, Im more interested in raising kids and being a father than being in a romantic relationship although I dont want my kids growing up without a mother figure.

If I had kids of my own and my wife left me then I wouldnt look for another relationship ever again, id be happy enough just raising my kids and then gettng the odd FWB to fufil my sexual needs.

I think that's you're fantasy isn't it op !?

Women on women ? Every woman being some secret bi or lesbian?

You really do need to expand your horizons.

I'm not remotely attracted to women . However my exs voice , his arms , torso, arse , used to make me go weak at the knees .

Attraction isn't just about tits or cock . I really think you sound very emotionally stunted. I can't see you attracting many women with the attitude you have .

Oh and please don't breed . There are enough narcissistic fuck wits in the world already. 👍

I'm not a religious person but I'm praying no one is ever impregnated by you.

They tell you that to get rid of you
Are you at a private school whose term hasn't started yet??

Well im 6ft 2, athletic, wide shoulders, hard working, dont do drugs and in the past have had women interested in me. Once I am sucessful and have money then im sure I could find myself a woman who will bear my children.

I'll take care of her and our children, I will provide, I will make sure that I do my part (i.e changing nappies, cleaning up around the house, cooking, washing the dishes, taking the kids out and spending time with them etc).

Its just that I never want to get married

I'm swooning

This is what porn does to young men, give them a totally warped view of women. Sad state of affairs 😢

You seem completely oblivious to the fact that being 6ft 2 with wide shoulders doesn't actually make you an attractive human being .

Personality counts . And in that you re sadly lacking. Sorry. But this isn't game of thrones where you simply grab your woman by the hair and impregnate her and thing you're a catch because you'll do a few dishes .

It wouldn't matter if you actually do look like Brad Pitt or George Cliooney - your personality is t appealing based on what you write here .
Attraction is more than looks, height , providing and doing the pots .
You clearly don't have any kind of sensitivity or empathy. Your ideas are fixed and rigid , and I'm afraid for most women that isn't attractive . Having kids isn't like doing a paint by numbers.

Find woman
Club woman over head
Impregnate woman
Play at being daddy
Keep woman
Keep woman while ever woman has sex and is a 1950s housewife.

Do you know what year it is ? You realise women can do all this by themselves?

Oh and vibrators have definitely improved over the years .

Have you ever read a book called American psycho ?

In fact have you ever read a book ?

You sound like a selfish, self absorbed little boy . Not an attractive proposition. Go learn some personal growth , some social skills and then maybe you'll get lucky and lose your virginity.

I'm with you (and pretty much everyone else) @hagathachristie.

This guy is no catch.

You’ve just not met anyone yet that makes you want more than just a fuck n chuck.

But with your current attitude, you’re in for a massive shock when someone finally does infiltrate that cold, hard heart.

Oh, and the children thing? What about adoption? Or, if you want it to be yours biologically, have you considered a surrogate?

You really do have a lot to learn about life and yourself.

Good luck!

Id rather go for the farmer type woman than those instagram looking models

Seems doubtful seeing as the only conversation you have had with a potential romantic prospect Is about love island and makeup?🤔

and the average woman isnt turned on visually by men and find mens bodies unattractive, in fact its proven that all women are either bisexual or lesbian but never straight.

😂

What you are doing in your dating life is effectively the equivalent of going to a pet store, buying a hamster, then complaining it doesn’t meow and chase mice.

I think some self reflection is required.

I'm guessing you don't have a very common surname.

There's a reason why you've never had a relationship - you listed all your wants and needs, but what exactly do you have to offer a potential partner?

You sound terribly immature and not ready for a relationship, incel in the making. Are you 24? Because you sound about 15.

So you don't want to do romance, or even want any kind of emotional connection with partner? A woman is literally just a receptacle for your penis? I think you'd be better off getting yourself one of them sex robot things to satisfy your sexual requirements and a puppy as a substitute for a child. But even then I'd be concerned for the animal's welfare.

@cheshirebloke But even then I'd be concerned for the animal's welfare.

😂😅😂

I don’t think most women would want a bloke who is this shallw

Wouldn't it be great if some sort of branding iron could leap out of the MN screen and be thrust against his forehead with a warning to future women.

Suggestions for the stamp.

"Suggestions for the stamp."

"I am a FuckBoy"?

Oh, another one - a phallic symbol (dick on forehead)

Yeah a dick on the forehead .

Signifies dick head .

💩

A little turd, would be quite nice.

Haha, oh dear.

Well, I'm a woman. And I don't know who your theory was proven by but I'm not a lesbain or bi.

I'm also not interested in talking about make up and Love Island.

I've also never wanted to get married.

Being 6'2 and having broad shoulders means fuck all.

I'm going to assume you're quite very young and need to grow up a bit!