Toilet habit... ? insensitive or overreacting

[beccabee33]

Help! (Sensitive issue so please be kind)
My husband has started approaching me as soon as I leave the bathroom asking if I have sprayed it. When I say yes, and I have, he has proceeded to go in with spray and leave it there. I have always had bowel trouble and never from any relationships had any question or behaviour like this. The window is always open. When I told him it is hurtful he told me to grow up.
Am I being over sensitive or is this unreasonable behaviour?

I think I may be controversial reading these replies but I don't have spray in our bathrooms. Well, there is one in the downstairs loo as that's the one any visitors would use but it's rarely used. I will caveat this by saying that there are no adult men living in the house, which may have a bearing, but neither me or my two teenagers ever leave a small bad enough that a window open a bit won't solve. I actually think spraying over toilet smells just smells even worse and draws more attention. Maybe a bit of bleach/toilet cleaner round the loo if needed afterwards but that's it.

I think your h is being very OTT.