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EmmaMarie18 · 08/09/2022 22:30

Me and my OH are separting. Its been toxic and I told him we cant live under the same roof as its not fair on any us especially the kids.

Hes left in the past and gone to his mothers but refusing to even do that now when its suited him before! He said he cant afford the petrol to work from his mothers house as its further away! He always left when he was on rest days from work and conveniently came back before he was due to go back in..obvious why now 😳

He told me this evening he's had legal advice and said if he leaves he hasnt got to pay half the mortgage until the house sells (joint mortgage) and he hasnt got to contribute to our son 🤯

I thought he had to but hes adamant he hasnt 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Darbs76 · 08/09/2022 22:32

He doesn’t have to pay half the mortgage no. My brother’s wife didn’t anyway (as she was renting somewhere else) and still got her half share when sold and they divorced. He absolutely does have to pay for his child though

fallfallfall · 08/09/2022 22:34

are you legally married?

EmmaMarie18 · 08/09/2022 22:38

Even though its a joint mortgage? that's mental 😔 i told him I cant afford to pay it all for him to not give a feck!

In his job hes not allowed to have any unpaid debts its one of the regulations apparently

I honeslty cant bare to live under the same roof as him! I want to go back to my mams but my kids are in school where we are now and the commute back and fore would be an hour each way 😔

I have had one valuation and got another booked for a week friday as ive been told to get three done by my financial advisor

Hes just been unbearable 😔😔 sooooo much easier when hes not here honestly

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EmmaMarie18 · 08/09/2022 22:39

@fallfallfall we're not married..THANK F lol

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