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Stood up!

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Trainlife · 03/09/2022 18:54

As the thread says.

Planned a second date with someone. I was to travel to his city.

He was a bit funny with me this morning for not knowing what was happening (he hadn’t let me know) he said he was just leaving me to it.

I got ready and set off. Got multiple trains, spent money, landed in his city and rang him to tell him I was there. He’d turned his phone off, I messaged his what’s app but that didn’t go through (phone off)

So I’ve now had to travel back home. I’ve spent my whole day travelling and I feel so annoyed.

He was super attentive, i didn’t think anything like this would happen if I’m honest.

I feel that this could be a get back. When we first started talking, I wasn’t as attentive, didn’t always reply and maybe this was his way of getting me back for it.

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knackeredagain · 03/09/2022 18:56

I had one like that once. Luckily it was in my home town, so I rang my mate and we had a night out on the razz. It was three years ago, but I still think about his discourtesy from time to time. Wanker.

OP, you dodged a bullet. Get yourself a nice takeaway and a bottle of wine, or whatever you like to relax, and try and have a lovely evening. Oh, and block him.

Trainlife · 03/09/2022 18:59

@knackeredagain he’s blocked.

I could have gone out with some lasses I’d just met, but I wanted to come home.

who does that. Like it’s so rude.

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Catlover1970 · 03/09/2022 19:07

Why were you going to his city?! Why wasn’t he coming to you?

Trainlife · 03/09/2022 19:08

@Catlover1970 he’d already been to my town, so I thought it was fair I travel to him.

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