Im not attracted to my dh anymore!

[outoflove]

My dh and I met when we were eighteen and began a serious relationship at 21 and got married at 24, we have now been married four years and have an adorable 18 month old ds.
The problem is now we are such good friends, but i don't feel anything else for him.If fact at times i find him irritating
I also see him as a 'kid' as he is a year younger and not very organised when it comes to money, time keeping etc...
Gosh im so awful, he is a lovely guy, but im just not feeling it at the moment..
Anyone in a simialr situation?

not in situation as such but know the feelings, is there no way you can rekindle some romance? ralise why you loved him in first place?

I guess so, i will try. I just have to see him as a grown man who is providing for his family and not as the eighteen year old kid.
I don't think i respect hiim enough

i had this, decided to split because i didnt feel the way i used to... now i am miserable as sin without him - he met someone else.

Dont copy me - i wish someone had talked me out of finishing it.

Im so sorry algonebellyup, ill take on board your advice.