Me and my partner are having infertility issues and we both agreed not to tell our family’s about it to avoid stress and questions and people not to feel sorry for us . I found out that he did tell his mum about we starting ivf jorney and now I’m so upset that he said he wouldn’t say and he still did ! Obviously his mum hasn’t said a word to me about it so they probably keep it a secret between them two , but I feel uneasy about starting ivf and knowing that his mum is probably going to ask him secretly how things are going ect . I wanted this to be secret until we are successful … what do you all think , is he right to say it or am I being unreasonable ? I only found about because we were having a just a random conversation about life with my partners brother and his wife when they came to visit us and they mentioned it to us by accident without knowing that I don’t know about the fact that they know and said that his mum told them about it . I was a big shocked and didn’t know what to reply . So I changed the conversation straight away .