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Do I go to wedding with new boyfriend (ex will be there )?

78 replies

reidemay · 28/08/2022 09:57

Two years ago was probably the worst time of my life.
I was getting messed around by my ex (lied to ,mentally abused ) etc who had plenty of narcissistic traits..he treated me awful and dumped me a week after my mum died.
He didn't text me morning of funeral and when I messaged him he read and ignored.
I was at the lowest and needed therapy to deal with everything.
He left me a shell of who I was
Fast forward two years I'm in a happy relationship with the loveliest man ,we live together and have spoke about marriage and kids.
Basically to quote lizzo "I'm not the girl I was or used to be " ha ha (cheesy )

Next Sunday is a mutual friends wedding
He will be there
Do I go with my new partner ? And show he didn't break me?

OP posts:
TooHotToTangoToo · 30/08/2022 13:41

Do whatever you would normally have done, if your ex not attending.

I'm presuming your dp is aware of what happened and that your ex will be at the wedding? If not fill him in beforehand

billy1966 · 30/08/2022 13:53

Doesn't say much about the groom!
@Firty's very good advice if you do go.

abblie · 30/08/2022 14:16

Oh yes definitely be as toxic as you can towards him 🤣

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