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Is this wrong

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herigoagain · 27/08/2022 21:33

I think I know the answer to this one...husband took pics of me while I was undressing. Found them on his phone. Do you think he's done this before and should I confront him about it?

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BigButtons · 27/08/2022 21:37

Yes you should.

Roundthetwistyroad · 27/08/2022 21:37

Sounds a bit creepy but how are things between you generally? Maybe he was going to tell you/share later. How did he do it without you noticing? What's he like sexually? Lots of unknowns but it does seem a bit off.

allinadaystwerk · 27/08/2022 21:41

This is a consent issue. He needs to understand this. If he can't, you have problems

KangarooKenny · 27/08/2022 21:42

Can you get hold of the phone and double delete them first, and check if he’s forwarded them to anyone ?

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herigoagain · 27/08/2022 22:00

Roundthetwistyroad · 27/08/2022 21:37

Sounds a bit creepy but how are things between you generally? Maybe he was going to tell you/share later. How did he do it without you noticing? What's he like sexually? Lots of unknowns but it does seem a bit off.

Really rubbish at the moment, went out to chat and had a few to drink and I ended up worse for wear. He took pics of me when I was changing , I don't believe he would forward them to anyone probably for just for him.

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jetadore · 27/08/2022 22:19

Yeh it’s wrong. It feels off to you because it’s wrong. Doing it openly is one thing, covertly taking creep shots of your partner, for whatever purpose, is not on.

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