A right to be happy

[IslandMan]

This morning I was reading my phone and saw something on social media that made me smile - link below.

My fiancée has been grilling me all day. What was it - why was I smiling. She saw me through a window sneaky style.

It's really shaken my thoughts. Why should I be questioned for smiling or laughing.

Made me laugh as I look after house - eat the leftovers - pick up towels etc.....

Nothing bothers me but thought this was wrong : I have never been bothered before but feel if genders were reversed this and other things would be called abuse.

www.instagram.com/reel/Cg1rGhKJd0c/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Gender doesn't come into iit at all. If your fiancee constantly grills you about your facial expressions, then you are not in a good relationship. She would at the very least be controlling if this isn't a one off.

Nobody would say any differently if the genders were reversed.