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Online Dating

2 replies

Jointheuk · 22/08/2022 20:46

I met this guy online for the first time last week. He has recently come out of an engaged relationship two months ago. He texts me everyday and has made a plan to see me again. However I do not feel like he is that interested in me as his texts are usually one liners and he seems to only want to see me once a week.

I don't think I want to see him since I don't want to feel like this even though I liked him. What should I say to him?

OP posts:
Sally2791 · 22/08/2022 20:49

This isn’t working for me, hope you find what you are looking for.

coldgin · 22/08/2022 20:54

Could you not just be honest and say you get the impression he is looking for something casual and you are looking for more so not sure if you are on different pages? Have you asked him what he is looking for? It's important to be upfront when OLD, too much time wasting goes on otherwise.
Maybe he is just completely new to the dating game if he is recently out of a serious relationship and is conscious about coming across too keen or needy. I think you should just be upfront and then cut your losses if you don't get the answer you want. It's still early days if you're only on date 2 so you have nothing to lose by broaching the subject with him. You never know, he might just surprise you with what he says!

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