This women is obsessed with me and my life ! I'm terrified.

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I'm absolutely boiling over with rage and emotion right now!
My ex husband had an affair with OW and we consequently divorced. OW is from a very poor part of the world and was keen to meet a western man (yes, one of those stories and yes, she did immediately get pregnant and yes, she wanted to be very involved in our financial resolution after 28 years of marriage...).
Anyway for the last 5 years, she was been living a very nice life with my ex and has lived all over the world. During that time, she has been completely obsessed with me despite her seemingly having won the jackpot. She's cyber bullied me, sent vile emails, rung me, superimposed photos of me onto pigs etc and generally broke me so much that my hair dropped out and I was very ill for a long time. The abuse was horrific. She apparently is never settled or happy and they have moved from New Zealand to Paris, to the US and then to the UK (about 2 hours away from me).
My 3 kids are adults and ex husband has had very little to do with them over the last few years and they pretty much just see him as a distant uncle.
NOW... I hear they are moving less than 2 miles down my road !!! EX has told one of our kids that it's 'to see them more' which i know is complete and utter rubbish.
My issue is that I'm well known in this area and work very hard in my job which has earnt me a good reputation and I'm terrified that she is going to try and fuck up the life I've spent so hard to rebuild for myself and the kids.
I cannot help feeling really creeped out by this news and a little scared.
What would you do?

She is moving to the UK. Then she will get all her family to move to the UK, as well. She will bleed your ex of money because her mother is sick, her brother is sick, her cousin died twice and now needs medicine. It will never stop, and your kids won't get any money

Regarding the injunction, I don't know if you will get one so quickly because really she hasn't done anything to you yet. But if you get. the injunction, it is like you kickstarting the war and she will become the victim. If it were me, I would let people know first, and when she does something, you have witnesses.

You said she is older. Have you checked if she is still married in the Philippines ? There is no divorce there.

When she starts texting you etc, then set the trap. Text her back
" Why are you texting me ?"
"Please stop texting me. You are scaring me ". That would get her to text you more and with that you go to the police.

@strawberrymelon88 - she's already in the UK and she's younger.

Oh the poor men! Leaving their wife for a Philipino bar girl then being lied to. Awful.

That is VERY weird I honestly think she's not well from what you've said. You absolutely should not have to live in fear.

If you do ever see her and she tries something, I would laugh and be like I'm sorry I have no idea who you are. Continue to act as if she is a complete stranger and it will do her head in. She obviously wants you to suffer.

I'm sorry your having to go through this. Your ex sounds like a piece of shit as well. You had children together and he should at least demand she respect you at the very least