Did you get back together with someone for the long run after a horrific break up?

[gtreTeaa]

I’m not posting because I’m in this situation. My parents did this. My dad was an alcoholic, smashed the place up etc before I was here. They broke up. Two years later he got in touch a changed man and they’ve been married 28 years. But he was a monster before then and caused a lot of distress.

I did after a five year separation but not divorced. He was a narcissist etc etc.
It was hell on earth being under the same roof again so I shortly left again & then eventually divorced.
Leopards don’t change their spots but we remained “friends” until he died in 2013.

What has put this at the forefront of your mind, 28 years later?

@PetalParty its their anniversary and I’m waiting for a dentist appointment. Does that pass your policing?!

@gtreTeaa that was rude. I don't think @PetalParty meant it that way.

Chill out.

@PetalParty yes, I’m sorry if it wasn’t intended that way!