Long term lurker and regular name changer if I ever do post
Been in a ldr for 4 years, for various reasons it's not possible to live closer together at this point. Got to know each other just as he was relocating from our mutual city. We talk every day and see each other every 4-6 weeks, sometimes longer depending on schedules.
A few things over the months seemed
a bit odd.
He bought a 4 bed house moving from his city centre place to the suburbs, didn't say a word about it until the day before he was moving.
He started new business, I knew he wanted to, we talked about it. He launched it, didn't say a word about it until I saw it on insta.
His first follower was Anna, he followed her, and also with his private account. She is friends with a few of his friends.
I looked at her insta page, it's open not private. 1 photo of them together, taken 2 days ago. Only one post, just that, which he liked from business page
He sent me photos of something
on desk was letter when I zoom in it's her name at his address
I asked him direct, are you seeing someone, someone you are living with? He was quite cross, are you serious, Then forget it. That was yesterday. Nothing since.
I know they weren't together when we got together, but they are now right?
Other info, we live hundreds of miles apart, I travel a lot for work. We are late 30's she looks same age. I know I sound about 15
So now, I'm thinking maybe I'm wrong? Maybe they aren't? Should I make contact first? Maybe I hurt his feelings? Or maybe I'm an idiot.
I'm feeling a bit sad, so please don't be too robust