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seela · 09/08/2022 19:06

So.... I want to hear some of your stories about OLD!

My most recent chat has been with a guy who "apparently" wasn't talking to me sexually. I made it obvious that I will not deal with that kind of behaviour.

So all of a sudden he asks me a question... "would you say you're more dominant or submissive?" Correct me if I'm wrong, but this is sexual right? Because he was telling me how he was 100% an affectionate person prior to this question.

When I went on to say this comes across very sexual, he said you could have asked what I meant and then went on to explain how it wasn't dirty. I kindly said it wasn't the best choice of words to ask whether I'm bossy and don't take shit or whether I'm quiet and drawn back.

I then noticed a day after his profile picture was gone, which meant he either deleted my number or blocked me. Seriously, why are guys always edging towards sex from the get go?! Currently come off apps since the person before this grabbed my ass and told me he'd like to wake up to it every morning. Just disgusted, I am not a piece of meat!

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anon12345anon · 09/08/2022 19:59

Haha!! I could've written this.... it's sooo annoying (and slightly disheartening) isn't it?!

I'm rapidly heading to my 40's, and I have made it 1000000000% clear I'm looking for a relationship, not a shag, and yet still the sexual mesages roll in!!

The worst ones are the ones that start off saying all the right things and then descend into sex talk - bloody waste of time!

I reckon about 10-20 % of the guys I talk to are actually normal, and looking to date....the rest get thrown back in the sea!

Anyway, he sounds like a cock....so at least you spotted it early!

Hope you (& me!) find a nice decent partner soon!Wink

happinessischocolate · 09/08/2022 20:17

I keep getting messaged by men who say they want someone bossy who has nice feet 😂

Then there was a 20 year old who wanted to know if I had stinky feet as it turns him on. I'm 55 fuck off 😂 he wouldn't give up

Why do they have so many quirks and hang ups which they're so proud of

seela · 09/08/2022 20:34

anon12345anon · 09/08/2022 19:59

Haha!! I could've written this.... it's sooo annoying (and slightly disheartening) isn't it?!

I'm rapidly heading to my 40's, and I have made it 1000000000% clear I'm looking for a relationship, not a shag, and yet still the sexual mesages roll in!!

The worst ones are the ones that start off saying all the right things and then descend into sex talk - bloody waste of time!

I reckon about 10-20 % of the guys I talk to are actually normal, and looking to date....the rest get thrown back in the sea!

Anyway, he sounds like a cock....so at least you spotted it early!

Hope you (& me!) find a nice decent partner soon!Wink

Me too!

Oh good riddance - I don't hold on to this rubbish anymore. It's difficult for these people to have a civilised conversation.

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seela · 09/08/2022 20:36

happinessischocolate · 09/08/2022 20:17

I keep getting messaged by men who say they want someone bossy who has nice feet 😂

Then there was a 20 year old who wanted to know if I had stinky feet as it turns him on. I'm 55 fuck off 😂 he wouldn't give up

Why do they have so many quirks and hang ups which they're so proud of

I had a guy telling me I could piss in his mouth 🤮 he also wanted me to sext other guys as it was a turn on for him.

Yep! I've had a feet one too. He was younger than me, begged to see my feet every minute of every day.

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