@Straighttalk22
’see your point completely and yes some are trafficked into it and some women aren’t paid more in certain jobs and totally agree there is gender issues especially in the building trade.
However some women do this as a career having met a sex worker many moons ago and asked why she did it her response i quote “I pick and choose my own hours and I get paid £70,000 per year I have the life I want I have 2 kids they both know what I do”.
Would I want a daughter of mine to do it no but some women do this by choice as above.
in our heads we see you have a website with a woman or women advertising themselves you call them direct I didn’t use an agency or anything you tell them what you would like they agree or disagree. The ones I went too it was consensual before payment not forced etc. There are certain websites where women do this as a sideline job to earn extra income so are they volunteering to do this.
Yes I see your point but there’s also two sides
the fact you think ‘gender issues is about the building industry is concerning .
im referring to millenia of imbalance between women and men where women have been and still are in many cases oppressed
yiu nention asking one sex worker why she does it and saying her reason . Do yoh really think that one woman represents the whole industry or balances out all the other women who are doing it because they are coerced trafficked or been forced into it throw the disadvantage that they may experience as women ?
You highlight the very issue I’m talking about when you say ‘When men go looking for it we don’t ask these questions’
maybe you need to ask yourself why the little appendage between your legs means more to you than why women don’t deserve to be treated with so little regard that your prepared to take a chance they may be there through any number of terrible circumstance and your just ‘ not going to ask ‘
it’s a pretty shitty thing to do . To just ignore the fact that your buying a woman who DOES not want to be with you
i would normally agree that to most things in life there are two sides but in the case of supporting an industry that exploits women and girls I see ZERO excuse and zero ‘ side ‘
there is only one side . The right side which is to never ever be ok with thinking women are commodities . If something not ok for your daughter then it shouldn’t be ok for you to treat anyone else daughter that way either
I’ll leave it there because clearly you and I hold extremely different beliefs Regarding women being treated with basic human dignity.