So I’ve known him for a year. Always had slightly flirty banter with him. He’s been trying it on for a while, and about 4 weeks ago I succumbed. It was great fun, and has carried on, I feel very flattered. Friday night he said that he had feelings for me, wants to look after me etc. He said he hoped that I wasn’t just thinking of him as a joke to tell my friends as he is in a young man in a trade, whilst I work in a senior sales role. Reassured him not the case at all, and I rarely let men into my bed. Told him I did not joke about it, he’s a clever bloke; very charismatic, how flattered I was. We talked loads, very different backgrounds and worlds but have always just connected through conversation. Agreed that we should go out for meal - meet friends etc. Then he went to work, now he’s not in touch at all. WTF is going on ? I even made him a packed lunch 😂