is there a list of red flag behaviours anywhere?

[Comeagainow]

Suspect (but don’t know) that friend’s boyfriend may be a toxic influence. Her self esteem has bern tumbling since they got together. Is there a post on here or website somewhere with a list of emotionally manipulative red flags that might help her see if he’s a part of the picture here?
I don’t mean just physical abuse or obvious coercion here, more subtle emotional passive aggressive type stuff that chips away.

Thanks

Baggage reclaim site does.

I would add 'Baggage Reclaim' as well.

Baggage Reclaim

This article by Joe Carver is also worth reading
www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html

Heartless bitch red flag list

Sounds like there might be some negging going on then, if her self esteem is taking a tumble. I don't know of any resources though, sorry.

Thanks for all these! x