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Not speaking to DP

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londonlass71 · 29/07/2022 23:39

I am not speaking to DP (we don't live together). Over the last week or so I have not liked the way he has been speaking to me and it came to a head last night on the phone. I told him what I thought and felt, he didn't apologise so I told him to F off. Not my finest moment but I'm so hurt and deflated atm.
Anyway we haven't spoken today but he sent me some silly meme which I ignored for a while after receiving it. I then sent him a text back and outlined exactly why I am still hurt etc and that I didn't want any stupid memes from him!
Anyone else had a few days whe they haven't spoken to their partner?

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billy1966 · 30/07/2022 16:27

pictish · 30/07/2022 07:58

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable. You have made an important point to him which he hasn’t taken on board and now he’s trying to sweep aside. You want to discuss the way he talks to you, he’d rather not. I wouldn’t respond to his meme either.

OP,

He thinks he can speak to you badly and ignores you when you challenge his treatment of you.

He's an arse.

Dump.

Maggit · 30/07/2022 16:34

Do you really want to be the person in a relationship who tells their partner to fuck off? I would never put up with abusive language from someone who claims to love me. You owe him an apology, but you seem to be focused on the things you perceive him to have done wrong.

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londonlass71 · 31/07/2022 00:12

Thanks to all those who contributed in a kind and helpful manner, you are appreciated. This has now been resolved calmly and amicably. I won't be watching this thread anymore but if you guys want to keep chatting pls go ahead. X

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