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34, and single...

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lchm · 21/07/2022 22:45

Have I time to meet someone and have children? Panicking slightly! x

OP posts:
Panda8383 · 21/07/2022 23:01

youve got plenty of time :-) right guy will come along, I met dh at 34 , we have two boys, when you meet someone you will know if they are the one and everything will just fall into place 🥰

Whatsonmymindgrapes · 21/07/2022 23:01

Yes of course

D0lphine · 21/07/2022 23:02

I think you still have time but you need to be meeting as many high quality men as poss. What you doing to facilitate this?

Worldwearymum · 21/07/2022 23:03

Disagree with above: you really have to focus on what you want and go for it. Make it a goal. You want to have children with your best friend, not any old bloke, so start getting your ducks lined up. Good luck x

lchm · 22/07/2022 10:21

Thanks everyone....

Argh it's such a horrible feeling isn't it when it hasn't happened for you yet. I worry so much about time and it not ever happing! I convince myself It won't happen!

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pixie5121 · 22/07/2022 10:26

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D0lphine · 22/07/2022 11:24

lchm · 22/07/2022 10:21

Thanks everyone....

Argh it's such a horrible feeling isn't it when it hasn't happened for you yet. I worry so much about time and it not ever happing! I convince myself It won't happen!

Channel how you feel into action.

You need to date aggressively and ruthlessly. Approach it like your full time job. Have as many dates as you possibly can. Cut off the fuck boys and people who are completely inappropriate asap. You can find nice men online.

I did this age 32 and it worked. Now living with a lovely partner who wants to buy a house and try for a kid next year.

But you can't wait around for it to happen. You have to make it happen.

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 22/07/2022 11:26

D0lphine · 22/07/2022 11:24

Channel how you feel into action.

You need to date aggressively and ruthlessly. Approach it like your full time job. Have as many dates as you possibly can. Cut off the fuck boys and people who are completely inappropriate asap. You can find nice men online.

I did this age 32 and it worked. Now living with a lovely partner who wants to buy a house and try for a kid next year.

But you can't wait around for it to happen. You have to make it happen.

Good advice, OP. Don’t just hope it will happen. Take action and give it the best possible chance of happening.

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