Stay or go??

[klr10]

I am after some advice please if possible. I'm in a long term relationship and for quite a while now have been so unhappy. As soon as my OH comes home from work there's shouting and swearing all the time over the littlest thing's. He always has to be right and thinks that I should always back him up when he shouts at the kids even though I dont agree with him which then just escalates matters. I am desperate for someone who will come home and have fun and a laugh with me and the kids not stuck feeling so down and depressed every single day. I don't know what to do I can't even talk to him about how I feel because he just shouts.

I just wanted to send my good thoughts to you, I am in the same boat and it is really not a nice place to be in. I think we underneath it all know what we truly deserve and how much better life can be it’s just hard to get there initially.

What is the situation re the finances and property?.

How can you be helped here into leaving your abuser?. The first step out is often the hardest one to take but take it you should.

There is no point whatsoever in you and he being together any longer. The relationship is over because of the abuse he meets out to you and in turn your kids. This is no relationship model to be showing them at all as they could well go onto replicate this dysfunctional relationship for themselves.

I would urge you to contact Womens Aid as they will give you good advice.

Your obviously not happy so why stay with him x