Hi I’m just wondering if anyone could help me I’m having a few problems with my child’s father my sons 2 1/2 its suspected autism and I’m currently pregnant nine weeks I’ve been having issues with my child’s father for a year he has been abusive and always seems moody if I say anything he switches it back onto me I feel like he doesn’t really care about his son because he will be in and out of his life whenever it suits him and he blames me when I’ve always let him have access to his son even when we’ve been on a break I’ve offered him and he just doesn’t want to I think it’s a form of control I’m really struggling with what to do because I’m scared to racist to kids on my own but to be honest I do think it’s for the bus I’m just wondering if anyone has any advice and also how it would work out with stopping him from having contact. I have social services involved they have advised us that we can access parenting courses together but I don’t really feel that want to do that I just want him out my life but it’s very hard to get rid of him please help