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Crush suggested alternate plans - Positive?

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Mgm7747 · 10/07/2022 19:38

I have a crush Im planning to ask out but for a few reasons I haven’t yet. I decided decided to message her to see if she wanted to get coffee (we’re in the same program for the summer). She sent back two frowning faces and said she just went to the coffee shop with her friend. But said she was free soon and asked how I was.

I responded by saying something funny, and she replied again, l “HAHAH Omg whyyyyyyy?” and said “you really need (name of coffee shop)!!” As I was thinking about what to say back, she sent another message saying “I would go to (name of cafe in our building) with you.”

I’m new to this but I assume it’s a good sign she suggested grabbing coffee on site? I feel like she could’ve just left it at she already went, and also she double messaged saying she’d go with me, granted we are friendly

Then after we grabbed coffee she came back to my desk and talked to me and my friend for like 45 mins

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DatingDinosaur · 10/07/2022 20:00

Sounds good to me. Enjoy! Don't over-think it.

Kitten2 · 10/07/2022 20:01

Yep all sounds like she's keen.
Maybe she was hoping you might suggest something more exciting than coffee

Mgm7747 · 10/07/2022 20:24

Mgm7747 · 10/07/2022 19:38

I have a crush Im planning to ask out but for a few reasons I haven’t yet. I decided decided to message her to see if she wanted to get coffee (we’re in the same program for the summer). She sent back two frowning faces and said she just went to the coffee shop with her friend. But said she was free soon and asked how I was.

I responded by saying something funny, and she replied again, l “HAHAH Omg whyyyyyyy?” and said “you really need (name of coffee shop)!!” As I was thinking about what to say back, she sent another message saying “I would go to (name of cafe in our building) with you.”

I’m new to this but I assume it’s a good sign she suggested grabbing coffee on site? I feel like she could’ve just left it at she already went, and also she double messaged saying she’d go with me, granted we are friendly

Then after we grabbed coffee she came back to my desk and talked to me and my friend for like 45 mins

Not sure it matters but not a Brit, from the US

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Mgm7747 · 11/07/2022 01:18

DatingDinosaur · 10/07/2022 20:00

Sounds good to me. Enjoy! Don't over-think it.

Thank you! I’ll try, I just have a hard time convincing myself sometimes she actually likes me haha!

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Mgm7747 · 11/07/2022 01:19

Kitten2 · 10/07/2022 20:01

Yep all sounds like she's keen.
Maybe she was hoping you might suggest something more exciting than coffee

Thanks! We work together in this program so I think she was genuine about getting coffee already, and I wanted to keep it more basic to start

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