Should I leave?

[aana]

Every time when something comes up, he won't talk. The more I tried to bring the discussion in, the more he will avoid me. He is gentle in person and will still talk if I am with him but not when we are not together. We have a distance relationship and it is really hard to bring the conversation up to solve the issue between us which hurt me so much. I am already thinking of leaving him but I'm not sure if I should meet him for the last time before I do that.

If there is no communication - which you are clearly telling him you need - then there is no relationship.

I doubt you'd have posted this thread if you were happy. And he seems to refuse to address that.

So yes, leave him.

What is the issue that hurt you so much?

Run for the hills and don't waste your time by seeing him again.

You know it's easy to argue over a small matter when we are far. Sometimes it could be a silly matter. Misunderstanding or no sorry and all when he was clearly at fault.

So I told him we need to discuss about how we are going to solve the issue if we are to face it again. What we should do so that the both of us won't hurt instead of silence. But he will just let the conversation hanging like that and the next days act like nothing happen.

Then, after another days we argued again and we were just running in the circle.