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HappyPhantom123 · 03/07/2022 18:10

I was having a drink at a friend's house last night. I went to bed around 2am'ish....an hour or so later, my little ones dad showed up at my friend's house, pissed. She told him that he could sleep in the spare room....which is where he started off and then about 3-3.30, he came and got in the bed with me and he just would not listen to me saying no to him and telling him I didn't want to do anything....for 1. It was my friends bed 2. Our 6 year old was sleeping next to me and 3. We're not even properly together that way anymore. He just wouldn't listen to me and he felt too heavy, I couldn't push him off me and I couldn't get away from him kissing me either. He couldn't go the whole way, as I'd fallen asleep in my jeans. He was doing better but then he just turned once he'd been drinking again. Is this just the type of sh*t I attract or something?! 💔 I don't even know what to do right now

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picklemewalnuts · 03/07/2022 18:27

I'm so sorry. That's distressing for you.

Do you think you could go to the police? Your friend knows she let him in when you were asleep.

The thing is, behaving like that is disgusting. Doing when your daughter is asleep behind you makes it extra abusive.

Would you like to talk it over with someone at women's aid, for example?

It is serious, even if he didn't manage to get your jeans off.

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