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Am I the unreasonable one

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Losinghope9 · 02/07/2022 14:11

This may seem incredibly petty, but this has been a build up of nit picking and generally being dismissive and uninterested.

I've been out with my children, partner was at home this morning with his, who he's now taken home.
I've come home let the puppy out and left the door open for him, gone upstairs to tidy up hoover and so on.
He's come home gone and sat in the garden so I've gone out to sit with him.

Noted a new jumper said " that's nice where is it from?"
Him " i got it when I was out" very short vague and ubrupt.
Him " oh and the dog has chewed up a ps controller that's £60, you could at least watch him"
Me " I was upstairs tidying and I didn't know you had left it in a place he could reach it to chew it" anyway I'm going to finish what I was doing"

He knows the puppy takes things at the moment hence why the controllers go up on the manual, why is it my fault that its been left in his reach? Or am I being unreasonable for him being annoyed at me for it?

Again this morning I'd said my mum would have my two so we could go out for a few drinks together, and listen to some live bands. His response was I'll be going anyway so up to you.

OP posts:
Losinghope9 · 02/07/2022 18:09

Thank you, there is just so much that happens and is said I find it hard to navigate it all. I am definitely weighing it all up, and seriously considering everything

OP posts:
LightSpeeds · 02/07/2022 18:36

Aquamarine1029 · 02/07/2022 14:28

He's checked out, so I would assist him by showing him the door and locking it behind him.

^ This

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