Where to start - od/tinder, looking for a bit of fun

[TrinityIce]

I have posted this in chat but thought it might be better suited here.

Can I block people in my contacts from seeing me on Tinder?
I don’t know that many people but I know a few in my family use tinder plus people from work.

I am only looking for a bit of fun and would be seriously embarrassed if i got found out.


Are there any platforms/apps where it is quite private? What else is there to try? Was thinking swingers (since it is my understanding you don’t need a face shot for those profiles) but I’m not sure I’m into that, I’ve been with the same guy for almost 20 years, don’t want to move too fast.

[seaUrchinOne]

You don't have to give much away on your profile so would it matter if someone you knew saw you? they are in there too!

You can stop blocked contacts from seeing you but not friends, go incognito? most dating apps have this for an extra charge, so only the people you swipe on can see you.