In the process of separation and I found I have so much more physical and mental energy now. I used to worry about things and get really down/depressed. I feel all my anxieties are gone now that I've accepted that this is the only way to be happy.
I'm not working at the moment and still living together with H, but will be looking for a job from Oct once DD is settled into school and looking into moving out. I joined a gym and really enjoying my classes. My evenings after DD falls asleep are quite boring though and I'm wondering if anyone in the same situation, what do you do?