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Unmatched mid conversation with a date planned

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Heytheredeliah · 25/06/2022 21:26

I was talking with a guy on tinder this evening. The conversation was going well and we had a date planned for tomorrow evening. Then, he suddenly unmatched me mid conversation. I was really looking forward to our date.

Why could he have done that?

OP posts:
QuebecBagnet · 25/06/2022 21:27

Married, got cold feet. Or his dw found the conversation.

LibertyBlues · 25/06/2022 21:29

He's a twat.

sittingonacornflake · 25/06/2022 21:30

Don't even give it another second's thought

CloseYourEyesAndSee · 25/06/2022 21:33

He's changed his mind and he's too chicken to tell you

Heytheredeliah · 25/06/2022 21:41

It's so weird that he got cold feet suddenly when 10 minutes earlier he was excited about planning the date

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LostAndLonely2022 · 25/06/2022 21:43

Doesn't matter why. It's Tinder. Don't overthink it and move on.

TooBigForMyBoots · 25/06/2022 21:43

Yup, married. He chased, he caught, he finished.😒

ElspethBoomingHowsen · 25/06/2022 21:45

Could be a glitch? I had the same thing happen to me. Guy disappeared mid conversation. Was disappointed as the chat was going really well! Logged on and off to check and then check on the online site and he was gone but all other matches still there. 2 days later he was back! No notification or anything and all the previous message were gone. We both thought we’d been unmatched so no idea what happened!

HappyDalldb · 25/06/2022 21:45

OP all I can say here is that it will have NOTHING to do with you!

its shit but don’t worry it’s about you.

BiscoffSundae · 25/06/2022 21:45

Stop getting so invested you hadn’t even met, maybe it was a fake profile? Many reasons

Getoffmyshoes · 25/06/2022 21:52

ElspethBoomingHowsen · 25/06/2022 21:45

Could be a glitch? I had the same thing happen to me. Guy disappeared mid conversation. Was disappointed as the chat was going really well! Logged on and off to check and then check on the online site and he was gone but all other matches still there. 2 days later he was back! No notification or anything and all the previous message were gone. We both thought we’d been unmatched so no idea what happened!

He deactivated his account, likely because his wife found out, a common scheme unfortunately.

OP, could be a number of reasons, almost all of them are nothing to do with you and everything about him. Try not to sweat it too much, unfortunately this is a common theme with OLD.

Heytheredeliah · 26/06/2022 21:56

ElspethBoomingHowsen · 25/06/2022 21:45

Could be a glitch? I had the same thing happen to me. Guy disappeared mid conversation. Was disappointed as the chat was going really well! Logged on and off to check and then check on the online site and he was gone but all other matches still there. 2 days later he was back! No notification or anything and all the previous message were gone. We both thought we’d been unmatched so no idea what happened!

No not a glitch. He has just unmatched me

OP posts:
Heytheredeliah · 26/06/2022 21:58

BiscoffSundae · 25/06/2022 21:45

Stop getting so invested you hadn’t even met, maybe it was a fake profile? Many reasons

@BiscoffSundae It could have been a fake profile. tbh he seemed too good to be true. He was nice, attractive and had a good job.

OP posts:
5128gap · 26/06/2022 22:44

He was talking to someone else and waiting on their reply, and it came during your conversation.

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