Love

[Falling2020]

What would you consider as love when the person doesn’t say the words to you, basically he hasn’t told me he loves me it’s a relatively newish relationship 9 months in 😊 he struggles expressing his feelings

Are you okay about not being told expressly in words? I know many people don't care- but I couldn't be with someone in a relationship who couldn't verbalise their love for me.

Does he give you any other compliments? Does he say that he enjoys spending time with you? These verbal affirmations (to some, including me!) are a good way of knowing that you're loved and that the relationship is good on both sides.

How do they react when you give them compliments?

Hi yes we spend a lot of time together, I get compliments off him yes, I compliment him also he is quite shy so doesn’t really respond he lacks confidence see 😞